Does “Magic of Making Up” Work?
The Magic of Making Up is a system that claims to be able to resolve serious lover’s quarrels quickly and effectively. This is a pretty big claim. Does the system deliver or is it a waste of time?
This brief Magic of Making Up Review should help you decide if this system is worth your time and money.
CONTENTS AT A GLANCE:
WHAT IS THE BASIC IDEA BEHIND MAGIC OF MAKING UP?
DOES THE SYSTEM ACTUALLY WORK?
ARE THE RESULTS LONG TERM?
MAGIC OF MAKING UP IS NOT FOR EVERYONE
WHAT DO YOU GET IF YOU PURCHASE THE MAGIC OF MAKING UP?
MAGIC OF MAKING UP GOOD POINTS
MAGIC OF MAKING UP BAD POINTS
MAGIC OF MAKING UP REVIEW SUMMARY
1. WHAT IS THE BASIC IDEA BEHIND MAGIC OF MAKING UP?
The Magic of Making Up is written by T W Jackson, a self-proclaimed student of human relationships. He is not a psychologist or a psychiatrist. He is just an average person who claims to have deep insight into relationships and how to mend and heal serious breakups.
The basic idea behind the Magic of Making Up is that all relationships can be salvaged, no matter how bad the break up was and even if only one of two people involved make the effort. The reason, says Mr. Jackson, that most serious relationships don’t “just fix themselves” is that people just don’t know how to think clearly or act in the right ways when they are drowning in the intense emotions and drama that often surrounds a breakup.
The idea is that if you can stop to think and look at the situation more intelligently, you will see that the root causes of a breakup are often not that difficult to understand or to deal with. The guide attempts to teach, you step by step, how to get the root cause of your fighting and show you exactly what to say/when to say it to cool things down and ultimately to mend the relationship.
The guides covers many different techniques which can be applied to different types of breakups or at different stages of a breakup.
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2. DOES THE SYSTEM ACTUALLY WORK?
Like any other system for accomplishing anything, the Magic of Making Up depends on YOU to take action. There are certainly a lot of people out there who buy this ebook and don’t even finish reading it, just out of laziness. Then, there are those who may finish reading it, get all excited about it, but never end up applying anything fully.
I have seen the techniques work wonders in my own relationship of 6 years, which was very near to divorce just 6 months ago. At that time, it didn’t seem like anything could have helped. We even went through some counseling together. Some of the techniques are so deceptively simple, that even most counselors may over look them, believing that only the complex analysis and techniques in psychology textbooks can be effective.
I found that the book allowed me to quickly get a “bird’s eye view” of the situation and to be honest with myself about why there was so much conflict. Once I was at that point of honesty, I was able to pick from several different techniques (things to say, when to say them, simple things to do and NOT do).
Often, the simplest things are the ones with the most power. But it’s so hard to see the truth when you are right in the middle of it. A good counselor, or a book like this can help you see what’s really going on and how to deal with it before it results in a permanent breakup.
3. ARE THE RESULTS LONGTERM?
Its great if you are able to take some simple advice and stop the immediate fight, but if you fall back into the same patterns again, another big fight or break up is just around the corner.
A portion of the guide is dedicated to the initial emergency control (what to say and do to stop the yelling and the outright fighting). Another portion focuses on honestly getting to the root of the problem so you can understand it and be in a better position to deal with it if it arises again. Finally, there is a section on prevention that talks about very specific things you can do to stop future yelling matches and fights the moment they are about to start. I found the prevention section to very valuable.
Once again, this all depends on YOU taking action. Just reading the guide is not going to save or mend your relationship. You have to be serious, and you have to take action. The ideas are not complicated and the techniques don’t involve a whole lot of work, just a new way of thinking. For long term results, you must commit to developing some simple new habits so that future fights don’t get to the point of no return.
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4. MAGIC OF MAKING UP IS NOT FOR EVERYONE
The Magic of Making Up guide is a book. You have to go through it yourself, take it in, and then determine what the best course of action is for YOUR particular situation. It doesn’t take much time and it is not complicated, but do realize that it is a book and not a human counselor.
The author does give you an email address where you can send in questions and he actually does answer them. But, that being said, some people don’t work well with books. Some people need a live human counselor to walk them through their problems. If you think you are that type of person, you are probably better off with going to see a counselor.
As well, if you think you are in a seriously abusive relationship, where you are genuinely in some type of danger, get some professional help dealing with the situation.
5. WHAT DO YOU GET IF YOU PURCHASE THE MAGIC OF MAKING UP?
You get immediate access to a downloadable copy of the guide. You can start reading it right away on your computer or you can print it out. The guide is clearly laid out and covers everything you can think of about how to deal with fights big and small, petty and serious, short term and long term. There is quite a bit of information. But you don’t have to read the whole guide. After reading the introduction material, you can skip ahead to the parts that apply to your situation.
The author also gives you an email address where you can ask him questions directly. I asked two questions and got a response within 2-3 days.
6. MAGIC OF MAKING UP GOOD POINTS
- Easy to follow, easy to understand material. Packed with information and tips.
- The program has worked for thousands of people. There are many positive testimonials on many websites from people who have used the system successfully
- A lot cheaper than going to a counselor
- You can email the author directly if you have questions
- If you are not satisfied, there is a 60 day money back guarantee
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7. MAGIC OF MAKING UP BAD POINTS
- There is no direct human conversation like you are going to get with a counselor. The system does depend on YOU reading it and applying it. YOU have to provide the motivation and the follow through. If you think you are someone who needs supervision, you are probably better off with a counselor.
- There is a lot of material covered. Probably more than any one person needs. The best thing to do is read the introductory stuff and then go directly to the sections that apply to you
8. MAGIC OF MAKING UP REVIEW SUMMARY
The Magic of Making Up system is an easy to understand system for resolving serious breakups. However, just understanding it is not going to help any one out. You have to take ACTION and do the things recommended, even if you don’t initially believe they are going to work. Some of the methods are definitely unconventional and you might find yourself thinking “how is THIS going to help?”. If you can suspend your disbelief for just a little while, and take ACTION as instructed, you will be pleasantly surprised.
All the information you need is there for you. Commitment to ACTION is the ingredient that you have to provide. Please don’t order this guide and just let it sit there. If you really value your relationship, take the time to understand the material, and take the simple actions. I think you will be very pleasantly surprised at just how effective such small changes and attitude and behavior can be.
I hope this Magic of Making Up review has helped you answer some of the questions you may have had. Please feel free to leave comments/questions below. Best of luck with whatever system/counseling/approach you choose to pursue!
